On the train last week I encountered a group of women heading to Edinburgh.  They were “girls on tour” with sequinned red dragon T shirts and selected refreshments.  They had ended up in the “quiet coach” and upset people with their high spirits, good humour and loud jokes and laughter.  They were enjoying themselves, having a great time.  They had abandoned partners, children, work and responsibilities to let their hair down, relax and get away for the weekend.

Although I have to admit that it was a lot more peaceful when they moved to the next carriage, I admire them for their attitude.  In the face of disapproval they were just being themselves, not modulating their behaviour, moulding it into what everyone else expected from a group of women probably aged from 30 to their late 40s.  It was very refreshing to see.  Yes I sympathise with the passengers who wanted a quiet journey, but hey, it was Friday afternoon – its OK to have some fun sometimes.

And how different would people’s reactions have been if it had been a group of men?  When I eventually got off the train I walked down the platform to find their carriage and held up a written note to the window that read “Have a great time!  Enjoy!”.  Go girls!

When did you last let your hair down, abandon all inhibitions and let go?  What would happen if you did?