If you had it once you can have it again. When we were younger we never appeared to fear anything.  We just operated with the confidence that we were born with.

When you pop out into this world you already have all the tools and abilities that you need to become an experienced person. You are responsible for your own success.  However as we grow older we sometimes allow ourselves to hand that responsibility for our happiness, our success, on to others.  This erodes our confidence, we feel less than we are.

But if you have had that confidence in the past you can have it again. Its merely a question of rediscovering yourself.  Start by asking yourself the question “How do I feel today”, “What do I want to do”, “What’s important to me”. It can be even more powerful to dissociate yourself slightly and try putting your own name in the question – for example “What does Sue want?”.

By focusing just that little bit more on yourself you can become more of what you really are and your new-found confidence will sparkle.